What you get: What you get: a recorded CPD webinar with the PowerPoint slides, companion notes and a CPD certificate to download. Watch it straight through, or build it into staff INSET or twilight training and take as long as you like over the discussion points. You’ll get instant access to everything as soon as you buy.

Session Overview

Why demands feel impossible, and what helps at home

When your child can’t do what’s asked, the day can tip into meltdown over something that looks small from the outside. Rewards, consequences and rigid routines tend to make it worse rather than better, and it’s easy to feel like you’re getting it wrong.

This recorded session explains demand avoidance as anxiety rather than defiance and what changes when you adjust how you ask and how you respond. It’s practical throughout, with small things you can try the same day: taking the demand out of how you ask, protecting the first half hour after school, staying connected when everything feels hard and repairing afterwards when you lose your patience, because you will, and that’s allowed.

What you’ll learn:

  • Why “won’t” is almost always “can’t”
  • The demand piggy bank, and why the meltdown isn’t about you
  • Small ways to take the demand out of how you ask
  • What your child needs most in the first half hour after school
  • How to stay connected when talking feels impossible
  • Why repair matters more than getting it right every time

Who this is for:
Parents and carers of a child with demand avoidance/PDA profile, with no prior knowledge needed.

What’s included

  • 47 minute video session
  • Companion Notes
  • Session Slides
  • Certificate of CPD

Licence Information

Individual Licence (£20 + VAT)

For personal professional development and individual viewing.

School Licence (£100 + VAT)

For internal use within a single school, including staff meetings, twilight training and INSET sessions.

Need a larger licence?

For MATs, local authorities, conference organisers or organisations wishing to use this session across multiple sites, please contact me for a bespoke quotation: [email protected]

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If you’d like me to deliver this session live for your school, trust, conference or organisation, or if you’re looking for a keynote, webinar or staff training on a related topic, I’d love to hear from you.

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